Posted by: kerrywills | November 16, 2012

THEY are causing problems


This is a re-post from an article I had written a few years back but a recent meeting reminded me of it so it made sense to send it again because it is an important consideration. An observation that I frequently make is the use of the word “they” or “you guys” during team meetings…

  • “They” missed their date
  • “They” didn’t do what we asked
  • “They” didn’t get back to us
  • “They” messed up the code
  • “They” don’t know what they’re doing
  • “You guys” made decisions without us

What I find interesting is the following groups that are labeled as “they”…

  • Offshore team
  • Other IT division
  • Infrastructure division
  • Business customers or sponsors
  • Vendor partners
  • Management

The irony is that all of these groups are part of the same project team (you know…. “us”?). People want to separate themselves into sub-groups to pass blame and shift accountability.  These people don’t want to take ownership for their deliverables or the environment that they are working in and therefore look more for blame then for solutions.

Project Managers need to facilitate a “we” mentality and recognize that everyone is working towards a common project goal – usually to streamline costs or introduce new products which will compete in the marketplace (against the true “they” which is the competition).

“We” should not just be a word reserved for the French!

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